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happy 2025, my self-improvement year ✨


Every New Year, I love starting fresh by setting goals, creating systems, and choosing a theme to guide me. For 2025, I’ve decided to call it my “Self-Improvement Year.”

This isn’t about perfection-it’s about progress. I want to focus on improving every part of myself, step by step. Whether it’s my health, habits, or mindset, this year is about becoming a better version of myself. Having “Self-improvement” as my theme this year will really help me find my purpose.

Of course, everything depends on how consistent I can be. It won’t always be easy, but I’m ready to try, learn, and grow. Here’s to 2025-a year of transformation and growth.


The Journey Back to Balance

There was a time when I felt more in tune with my body, not too slim or heavy, just a version of myself that felt right. Lately, though, I’ve been longing to return to that balance. It’s not just about appearance; it’s about feeling good in my skin again. I know I badly needed to focus more on my self-improvement, including a healthy lifestyle, but I am still confused about how I will do that.

Body shaming has been a constant sting, coming from places I didn’t expect and sometimes from strangers. It’s exhausting. I’ve carried those words with me, but now I want to let them go and focus on change, not for them, but for me.

The challenge? I have PCOS, which makes losing weight an even more challenging climb. It sometimes feels like a battle with my body, but I’m not giving up. Slowly, steadily, I’m committing to a healthier version of myself-one step, one day at a time.

This isn’t just about a number on the scale. It’s about reclaiming the confidence and joy of feeling strong and healthy-no shortcuts, no rushing-just patience and persistence. And one day, I’ll get there.


The Journey to a Better System

self-improvement
Image from Pinterest

I’ve watched countless vloggers and content creators preach about setting proper goals and following SMART plans. Their enthusiasm is contagious, but here’s the truth: none of it has ever worked for me. Maybe it’s on a case-by-case basis?

So, I’m shifting my focus. Instead of obsessing over goals, I’m choosing to build a system-a way of living that centers on consistent actions, no matter how small. It’s not about the outcome but the habits I form. And I think this will be a big help on my self-improvement journey.

It’s about showing up every day, even when I don’t feel like it. It’s about staying disciplined and committed, whether inspired or stuck in a rut. Motivation comes and goes, but a system? That’s the foundation I can rely on, no matter the mood, environment, or circumstances.

This journey isn’t glamorous, but I believe it’s the kind of quiet, steady effort that leads to real growth: no shortcuts, no pressure-just progress, one step at a time.


The Journey Through a Constantly Changing World

Life sometimes feels like a busy highway-one where I’ve been running non-stop, chasing something I couldn’t define. From graduation until now, I’ve been consumed by worry, stress, and the weight of overthinking my future. It’s like I was sprinting, hoping to reach a destination I wasn’t even sure existed.

But recently, I realized I have to keep running. It’s okay to pause, take a break, and breathe. I can sit down, relax, and think about my next steps with a clear mind. Life isn’t a race; it’s a journey that unfolds at its own pace.

We’re all unique, with talents and skills that shape our growth and self-discovery. And while change can feel overwhelming, I’ve come to understand it’s a natural part of life. Instead of fearing it, I must embrace it, adapt to it, and trust the process.

If something is meant for me, it will come. I don’t need to chase it relentlessly; I need to stay open and prepared for what’s next. After all, everything happens for a reason, and this journey is as much about the pauses as it is about the progress.

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This photo is Kima Rodriguez new skincare.

skincare is my happiness

My Love for my skin

I’m the kind of woman who can’t resist the skincare section at the mall. There’s something about browsing through creams, serums, and face masks that brings me genuine joy. For me, buying skincare isn’t just a habit, it’s a small ritual that makes me feel good. I just love taking care of my skin.

How the Started

Back in high school and college, as a youngster, I didn’t really have any skin problems; I used body soap and nothing more. Occasionally, when I had extra money, I would treat myself to affordable sachet products from iWhite Korea or HBC (I don’t know if it still exists; it is mostly called “hortaleza”). Those small purchases felt like little luxuries at the time.

Discovering Affordable Skincare Online

When platforms like Shopee and Lazada became popular, I suddenly had access to a wide range of affordable serums, facial washes, creams, oils, and more! My favorite is using face masks before bed, or just overnight. It felt like a dream for me.

However, I’ve always been careful. With so many counterfeit products online, I make it a habit to check reviews, seller ratings, and product authenticity before buying.

Using different products and applying it directly on my skin is something I take seriously, and with so many counterfeit items flooding the market, especially online, it can be tricky. I make it a point to double-check reviews, seller ratings, and product details before hitting “add to cart” to avoid any potential harm to my skin.


taking care of my skin meme
This is my facial expression when the products don’t have any effect on me. Image from Pinterest.

Trying Korean Skincare Products

For a long time, I used Nacific, a Korean beauty product line that’s very gentle and has a good consistency, and it worked really well for my skin. Though there are times when it is not suitable in the Philippines’ weather. The good thing is my complexion improved, and I felt more confident without makeup.

But over time, I noticed the results started to plateau. Whether it was me not noticing or getting used to it, there is something else. My curiosity growing, I knew it was time to explore new options.


Switching to Premium

There’s a famous brand that always caught my attention at the mall was Kiehl’s. It had a strong reputation, great reviews, and was often recommended by bloggers I follow. I also like that they offer a patch test or can check your skin type and recommend the best for you. Eventually, I decided to invest in their products, and it was worth it.

After just one month, I noticed visible improvements. My blemishes started to fade, my dark circles became less noticeable, and I looked glowing, brighter, and clearer overall. Even my friends pointed out the difference.

What I Learned About Skincare

This journey taught me that taking care of your skin is not about buying the most expensive beauty products; it’s about finding what works for you and being consistent with it.

Using beauty products is more than just a routine; it’s a form of self-love. Whether you’re just starting or exploring out, the key is patience, consistency, and choosing what truly works for your skin.

I’m excited to continue this journey and discover even more ways to take care of my skin.

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ALT Mive Style FOlder Flip Phone

dumbphone: love at first flip


My Dumbphone Story

Minimalism is about simplifying your life by focusing on what truly matters and letting go of excess stuff. Digital minimalism does the same with technology especially using dumbphone for everyday life. It helps you use your devices and apps more mindfully. 

Using a dumbphone helps me avoid digital distractions. Both aim to create more space for what’s important. One focuses on physical things. The other focuses on your digital life.


Lately, I’ve been spending a lot of time on my smartphone. I mostly watch short videos, read comments, and get caught up in content. It’s starting to take a toll on my mental health, and I realize it’s affecting how I feel overall.

My screen time is consistently around 7–10 hours a day. I spend most of this time on social media. Somehow, I still managed to get work done during all that time. How do I even juggle both? It’s crazy, lol!

I’ve decided to gradually reduce my social media usage, starting with Instagram, X, and TikTok. I can’t promise I’ve completely quit them, but I’ve cut back. Still, there are moments when I find myself scrolling and watching short videos. Then, I realize it’s already midnight without even noticing how much time has passed!

The two social media platforms I can’t let go of right now are Facebook and YouTube (does YouTube even count as social media?). Facebook is where all my family and relatives stay connected, especially through group chats and posts for greetings. My parents love being featured in posts-they’re 100% into it! They even keep track of likes and comments, reading each one, especially on special occasions. That’s why deactivating my account isn’t an option.

As for YouTube, it’s my go-to for learning and entertainment. Fun fact: I discovered Digital Minimalism through YouTube! I’ve watched tons of vlogs about dumb phones and how switching to one has improved people’s lives. It’s something I’d like to try for myself.

dumbphone
I bought it here in the Philippines, but you can also check eBay for this.

Mive Style Folder

I bought a new phone after coming across it on TikTok while searching for dumbphones—specifically flip phones with keypads, because I miss the nostalgic vibes. My first choice was the Samsung Folder 2, but many content creators recommended the Mive Style Folder instead, highlighting its newer Android version. So, I decided to go with this one!

Mive Style Folder with physical keypad and touch screen.

This phone isn’t a true “dumbphone” since it runs Android Go v.12, which still lets me download apps like WhatsApp, Viber, Grab, Facebook, Instagram, Spotify, TikTok, Booky, and all the Google apps, including YouTube!

Mive Style Folder with headphone jack.

The headphone jack is a huge plus! Nowadays, most new phones have ditched it in favor of Bluetooth headphones. I still prefer the classic plug-and-play headphones-no charging needed, just simple and reliable.

Mive Style Folder with Type C charging port.

One of the main reasons I chose this phone is its Type-C charging port. My power bank has a built-in Type-C cable, so I don’t need to carry extra charger cords. It’s also super convenient since most of my devices use Type-C charging as well.

Mive Style FOlder with rear camer of 8 mega pixel with flash.

This phone features a 5mp front camera and an 8mp rear camera. It supports one Nano SIM card and has an SD card slot that can handle up to 512GB of storage.

This is the menu of ALT Mive Style Folder with Nova Launcher and Crayon Icon Pack.

This isn’t exactly a dumb phone-it’s still a smartphone since it runs on Android. However, its small screen and limited RAM naturally curb social media usage, which is one of the reasons I love it so much!

Sample Video of Mive Style Folder

The built-in LED lights make the phone adorable. They let me easily notice notifications or any activity on the phone at a glance!

How does YouTube look on this phone? Surprisingly good! The sound is loud and clear, making for an enjoyable experience. While it can be a bit laggy due to the 2GB RAM, it still gets the job done perfectly fine.

How does YouTube look on this phone? Surprisingly good! The sound is loud and clear, making for an enjoyable experience. While it can be a bit laggy due to the 2GB RAM, it still gets the job done perfectly fine.


Overall, this phone amazes me and makes me happy to use it. But the biggest question for me is: will I be able to survive just using this phone? Well, we’ll see because I planned to use it as my main phone, and my iPhone is for work-related use only.

The real reason I can’t part with my iPhone is for work: replying to emails, Slack, accessing documents, and contacting users. But… It’s strictly for work now! I haven’t installed any social media apps on it!

I’ll be updating this blog with my thoughts on using this phone as my main personal device and for work after a month. As you can tell, I haven’t included any work-related details here yet.


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myself is all i need to be happy

Random thoughts about myself

I am having a hard time coping with other people recently. I was embarrassed and disappointed by the people whom I truly trusted. Shit, happens, right? But why am I experiencing these things? Sometimes I want to be alone and shut people out.

I’ve been engaging myself in the online world for the past few months. Playing different types of games and chatting with people around the world.

i choose myself
Image from Pinterest

Seriously, I love meeting new people. I’m somewhat excited about exchanging stories and experiences because, for me, it is one of the best ways to get to know someone better. But what if you meet someone who would destroy the inner peace in you? What will you do? In my case, I can’t completely cut ties with them; however, if it’s the right thing to do for myself, then I have no choice.

Most of the time, I choose to help them; I prefer to guide them and help them become more comfortable with me, but now I’ve decided to put myself first.

Self-love is what I need right now. I don’t need a relationship with someone who just needs me for convenience. I don’t need someone who is taking advantage of me and lying to me.

This sadness is one of the reasons why I am blogging. Slowly, cutting my engagement with different social media because it doesn’t help me at all.

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