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Have you experienced being always there but also the least favorite in a group?
I often experience it. The feeling of being unwanted, unloved, and not the favorite person makes me feel distant and alone. Even though I am always there for them, they seem to don’t care.
Sometimes I think I’m just sensitive and emotional.
But why do I have to feel those specific emotions? Why do I have to be in a group that doesn’t like to be with me?
Either way, it’s just a feeling and thought that kept running through my head for a couple of days, then stopped, then ran again, and the cycle repeated.
I know it’s really hard to communicate online, especially as an empathetic observer. How can I observe in chat? Hard to tell, and the interpretation will depend on how it is read and understood by a reader like me. So, as much as possible, I’m trying to slow down and understand those who thought from different angles.
But reading different books or listening to advice from different experienced people taught me that the opinions of others about me shouldn’t matter. What matters most is my own opinion of myself. Just focus on what I can control and let go of what I can’t.
I should stop caring what other people think. I don’t live for their approval or become someone who always pleases them. My only wish is to be loved, respected, and treated right.
Also, there are times when I’m just overthinking little things. I’m just making it exaggerated, so I have to be careful about what to focus on.
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It’s wonderful to meet you and read your poignant words. Normally, I wouldn’t say anything or try and do exactly what you have stated perfectly above, but – times have changed and being honest is more in style. You are probably not imagining things and for whatever reason, you can pick up on energies or subconscious vibes being thrown in your direction. When this happens to me and yes, it happens a lot, it’s very easy to take it personally or feel rejected. It’s okay that some people aren’t going to give you the right energy, but “know” – your true peeps, friends, allies – will love your energy, your words, and your demeanor. The key is not to let it affect you negatively or allow anyone to alter what makes you unique and genuine. Well written and well said! ❤ Siri
Thank you so much, and Nice to meet you, SiriusSea! This really means a lot. I appreciate you taking the time to read and commented on this. It’s comforting to know I’m not alone in feeling this way and that someone understands me. I’ll definitely hold on to what you said about staying true to myself. ♥️
Hi Zea, happy to meet you here 🫶🙏
Thank you so much po! 😍 Thank you for visiting din hehe, I’m so happy! Nice to meet yoy po 🤗
“This is so beautifully written and deeply relatable, Zea. The feeling of being ‘always there but never the favorite’ is tough, but your perspective on self-worth is so empowering. Focusing on what we can control and letting go of the need for external approval is the best way to heal. Thank you for sharing your heart!
Thank you so much for your kind words. And I agree with you; I will focus more on my own journey and how I will continue to improve myself.
Always happy to support you, Zea! 🌸 Your journey is unique and beautiful, and I’m so glad my words resonated with you. Keep being your amazing self! stay blessed. 🥰✨”